Connections we have with family, friends, colleagues and our community provide us with happiness, support and a sense of purpose. Having strong connections with others is important for our overall wellbeing. If you feel lonely or disconnected and would like to make a change, reflecting on your current connections is a good place to start.
Use these questions as a guide to reflect on your current social connections.
Family and friends
- How often do you spend time with friends or family?
- This can include more formal get-togethers such as eating out or special events. Or more informal time spent relaxing together at home.
Chatting with others
- How often do you talk to friends and family on the phone?
- Do you acknowledge or say hello to strangers as you pass them by on the street or in the supermarket?
- Do you engage in general conversations with colleagues?
Activities and interests
- Do you belong to any formal or informal interest groups?
- These can include fitness, hobby, cultural and social groups.
Volunteering and helping out
- How often do you do something to help someone? For example, helping a friend move house or cooking for a sick family member.
- Do you engage in more formal volunteering arrangements?
Community and local events
- How often do you attend community events?
- These events can include sporting events, local markets, music and art festivals and other cultural events.
When we regularly participate in a combination of these activities, we feel a deeper sense of connection to our family, friends and community.